I don't know about you, but I was at fault for 85% of MY marriage problems. Here’s one of the biggest mistakes I made that slowly turned my wife into my WORST ENEMY. (This was back in 1974 of course, I remained married over 40 years until my wife passed away in 2019.)...
A common question I receive from couples and individuals is, “What is the ONE thing I can do to improve my marriage as soon as possible?” I work separately with husbands and wives who are at their wits end on how to rescue their struggling marriage. It's in these...
There’s a good chance your marriage trouble began when your spouse stopped meeting your expectations. Do you know WHY this happened? It’s simple…because YOU stopped meeting your partner's expectations. (Or the other way around). So, if you're wondering, "can this...
Hi, I'm Larry Bilotta. I was in a bad marriage for 27 years and I know what it’s like to not know who or where to turn to for help. So if I were you, I’d be wondering, "who's the guy behind this website and why should I listen to him?" And I don't blame you. The...
Many people ask me "Larry, how can I stop my divorce? My spouse wants a divorce and I want to try to work things out! Is there any hope for us?” If you’ve let your marriage slip so far down the Secret Path to Divorce that your spouse wants a divorce, I want you to...
Most emotional affairs start out as an innocent friendship. You see each other often, go out to lunch every now and then, share your thoughts and feelings with each other…so where’s the harm in that? For starters, just like a drug…emotional affairs can be ADDICTING....
It’s a fact. Combining children and divorce often leads to a wide variety of problems down the road. It’s unbelievable how many people get a divorce without looking into what kind of effect it might have on their kids. But because you’re reading this, I’m willing to...
I don’t know a thing about you, but I’m willing to bet that you’re worried about the effects of divorce on children because you or your spouse is seriously considering ending your marriage...but you don't want to hurt your children. When making the difficult decision...
There are many psychological effects of divorce on children ranging from anger to extreme depression. About 75% of all children oppose their parents’ divorce. The other 15% are children who frequently witness their parents’ loud arguments, accusations and even...
Talking to your child about divorce can be very difficult if you don’t know in advance what to say. I encourage you to make a checklist so you can organize your thoughts and appear calm and collected when talking to your children. Here are some starter tips to keep in...
